Does your child exhibit any of these Enneagram behavioral styles?

No. 1 The Perfectionist wants to do everything just right and is often self-critical.


No. 2 The Helper wants to be of assistance and to be liked, and often masks his or her own feelings and needs.


No. 3 The Achiever is driven to perform well and to win approval.


No. 4 The Romantic is sensitive, often dramatic, and needs to feel special.


No. 5 The Observer is curious, wants to understand everything, and is often shy.


No. 6 The Questioner is alert, looks for security, and may be fearful of confrontation in the face of the unknown.


No. 7 The Adventurer seeks anything new and fun and often exhibits a short attention span.


No. 8 The Asserter is strong, energetic, and often aggressive.


No. 9 The Peacemaker wants everyone to be happy and to avoid conflict.

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